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Things You Can Control In Life

While most of what happens in life is out of your control, the most empowering piece of understanding is that your experience of it doesn't have to be.
March 15, 2022

Life can sometimes feel overwhelming, and while most of what happens is out of your control, the most empowering piece of understanding is that your experience of it doesn't have to be.

At it's core, here's a simple reminder that you are always in control of your experience of life and that no body can take that away from you.

With a little practice and cultivation, there are pieces of your life that will always remain yours.

Here's a simple list of some empowering things you are always in control of:

Your beliefs

Your attitude

Your thoughts

Your perspective

How honest you are

What books you read

The choices you make

How you treat yourself

How many risks you take

How kind you are to others

How often you say i love you

Whether or not you ask for help

How you express your thoughts

Who you associate yourself with

What you do with your spare time

How many times you smile each day

How often you think about your past

How much time you spend worrying

Whether or not you choose to try again

How often you let yourself appreciate life

Understanding those, here's some simple questions to ask around them:

Where are you taking that power and embodying it?

Where are you giving it away?

Which ones of those are the most important to cultivate?

Which ones mean the most to you? Why?

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